I am planning a trip where I desperately need to administer my Linux pc remotely using a Windows 10 pc and can no longer get it to work. It worked in the past but I have since reinstalled my OS (Linux Mint based on Ubuntu) and my cable modem/router. It works great between the PCs on my local network. Running free version 5.3.12 on all machines.
I know my external ip, which is also confirmed from the NoMachine GUIs. I’m using the port also shown by the GUIs. I have tried with upnp enabled on my router and EnableUPnP NX set in server.cfg. I have also tried with EnableUPnP none set and turning off upnp on my router and forwarding ports and even setting my host machine to DMZ as a test. In my various testing I sometimes get the error of connection timed out but usually connection refused.
Any help would be appreciated!