In situations when there is no monitor, keyboard or mouse plugged-in to machine it is better to run system in the init 3 mode. NoMachine will create then a new display.
You need to log via SSH to this server (for example using PuTTy), edit /etc/default/grub and add “3” value to GRUB_CMDLINE_LINUX_DEFAULT key. Then you should update grub configuration and reboot machine.
sudo vi /etc/default/grub
Change:
GRUB_CMDLINE_LINUX_DEFAULT=”quiet”
to
GRUB_CMDLINE_LINUX_DEFAULT=”quiet 3″
sudo update-grub
sudo reboot
When system start, you’ll be able to connect via NoMachine.
We didn’t yet test the solution with installing a dummy driver which you wrote about. If we are able to reproduce the problem we will try to find a way out.